Taking responsibility for your life and all that you do, this includes the decisions YOU made, is the first step to mastering this game we call life. Stop blaming others for why you are where YOU are right now. Because I can assure you, the person who “screwed” you over isn’t losing any sleep because over it. The question we all must as ourselves once we go through an ordeal that may have placed us in an undesirable spot is “What am I going to do about it?” The decision you make from that question will determine how your life flows from then on. As stated before, your situation today was based off of a decision you made yesterday. So make a ,decision today to place yourself in a better spot in the future.