Being indecisive can be hazardous to your health and your entire life. A lot of our lives are being ran by other people because of our indecisiveness. A great rule of thumb: decide what happens next or someone else will decide for you. And believe me, you don’t want to live out an ending of someone else’s choosing. Being indecisive takes up and wastes time (time is money), and it yields results that are not favorable to you. It never does. Think back to a time when you were indecisive about a choice you had in front of you. You might have been with your significant other at the time or your friends and family. You couldn’t make up your mind so the other person made the decision for you. How many times have that happened and the choice that they made wasn’t what you would have picked? Remember that feeling you had the moment that happened? At that moment, someone else decided the experience you had in that moment of YOUR life. In order to “master” your LIFE, you must take control of it and being indecisive is giving up that control. Some of us are indecisive at times because we are afraid of what other people may think of our decisions. Or we fear what will happen after we make a decision. Fear also creates indecisiveness. This is one trait that we must get under control. One must DECIDE to kick fear out of their lives and CHOOSE to live outside of that comfort zone. When its all said and done, the top people are those who make the hard decisions. They are also the people who live their lives the way they see fit. Take some time to practice on making decisions for yourself. Start off small and work your way on up to big, life changing decisions. It will, and I guarantee, make your life better and you will feel more confident and in control.
Published by Lorenzo L Sellers
Lorenzo Sellers is Chairman and CEO of Breakthrough Research International®, an organization specializing in the field of success training and development of individuals and small businesses. Lorenzo’s goal is to help you achieve your personal and business goals faster and easier than you ever imagined. In a short time, Lorenzo Sellers has consulted for more than 50 small businesses and addressed more than 5,000 people in 50 talks, seminars, and workshops throughout the US, Canada, and 4 other countries worldwide. As a keynote speaker and seminar leader, he addresses more than 50,000 people each year. He has studied, researched, written and spoken for 6 years in the fields of economics, history, business, philosophy and psychology. He is the top selling author of 2 books that have been translated into dozens of languages. He has written and produced more than 10 audio and video learning programs, including the worldwide, best-selling Blueprint To Success, which has been translated into more than 10 languages. He speaks to corporate and public audiences on the subjects of Lifestyle and Professional Development, including the executives and staff of many of America’s largest corporations. His exciting talks and seminars on Leadership, Self-Esteem, Selling, Goals, Strategy, Creativity and Success Psychology bring about immediate changes and long term results. He has traveled and worked in over 5 countries and speaks four languages. He is active in community and national affairs, and is the President of two companies headquartered in San Diego, California. Lorenzo is the president of Life Mastery Foundation, a company that helps individuals and businesses of all sizes achieve personal and professional goals. View all posts by Lorenzo L Sellers