Why do we always complain to people who can’t change our situation? Because it is uncomfortable to address our problems head on. Many people say nothing at all to avoid any conflict or a potential argument, but still wind up unhappy. We talk to friends about problems with our signifacant other, talk to our significant other and friends about problems at work, etc. Lets switch it up. If you are not happy with certain things in your relationship, address your significant other about it and request change. Respectfully of course. And if nothing changes, maybe its best you move on. What is the point in being in a relationship if it isn’t growing? The same goes at work. If you yourself cannot change your work situation on your own, request change from the person who can make things happen. Things won’t change if your problems don’t know how you feel. Make a decision and control your own life.